I can't seem to understand why it is that 'some' females (possibly some guys, but for the sake of this I'm referring to females), find themselves abandoning their long term friendships for men who don't give a s**t about them.
WHAT ARE YOU THINKING?
WHO is there when you're bawling your eyes out because he's treating you like some dickhead and you feel like he don't love you no more and you don't know what you're gonna do. Ask yourself who?! The same people you wanna tell to piss off to spend ALL of your time with this guy who never bothers to put you first.
How about growing a backbone and thinking straight. You spend most of your days bawling your eyes out to the point of insanity, but yet you stay. Knock him off the pedastal you got him on and put yourself on there for a change.

You're letting someone else dictate your life and run it for you. Don't bow out like a dickhead I beg. If you're on a tip where you're feel it's a good idea to sacrifice friendships and forget about who has always been there for you, then stay on that tip and spin on it until you fall off and bump into some bludcleet sense.

It doesn't have to be one or the other! You can have a boyfriend and friends at the same time! When that guy ups and leaves your needy arse don't come trapsing yourself back to me!